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Box social is a term for a
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that was widely used in the early 1900s with varying definitions in
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, the
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and the
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American usage

In the U.S. state of
Vermont Vermont () is a state in the northeast New England region of the United States. Vermont is bordered by the states of Massachusetts to the south, New Hampshire to the east, and New York to the west, and the Canadian province of Quebec to ...
the tradition is that women decorate a cardboard box and fill it with a lunch or dinner for two. The men bid on the women's boxes anticipating a meal with the woman whose box it is. Generally the boxes are anonymous, so the men don't know which woman belongs to which box, nor what the box contains, the mystery and sometimes humorous results adding to the fun. However, it is not unknown for a young woman to surreptitiously drop hints to a favored man indicating which box is hers, as a way of rigging the results. The bidding involves teasing, joking, and competition. The event frequently takes place in a
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, school
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nasium, or
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. The practice had fallen out of favor with young people in the 1970s–1990s, but has seen some resurgence in recent years. The rules today have become less rigid. Men now provide boxes as well, but the goal remains the same: raising money for a school, church, or civic project. A notable example from
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is the second act of the musical ''
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'', which is set at a box social.


See also

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Pie supper A pie supper is a social gathering where pies are auctioned to raise money, often for a local school or fire department. Pie suppers are predominantly associated with Ozark culture, and provided a major source of funding for many of the region's ...


References

;Notes ;Bibliography *Miller, Peter. ''Vermont People.'' Self-published: 1991. . *Strickland, Ron. ''Vermonters: Oral Histories from Down Country to the Northeast Kingdom.'' New England Press: 1986. . *Van Susteren, Dirk, ''A Vermont Century: Photography and Essays from the Green Mountain State.'' Rutland Herald and Barre-Montpelier Times Argus: 1999. {{ISBN, 0-932754-99-6. Contexts for auctions Vermont culture Dating Parties Personal selling